Tag Archive for: Leadership

Make Preparing for Negotiation, your Bitch! – Sample Preparation Sheet

In negotiations, are you freezing like a deer caught in the headlights?

  What do Tom Brady and Michael Phelps have in common? They know how to respond under pressure. Sports professionals frequently freeze under pressure. However, it is not limited to just sports. It happens in negotiations too. When asked an unwanted question, I have witnessed negotiators freeze like a deer caught in the headlights. This […]

Oh! The Winter Blues

Oh! The winter blues. It is temporary, I promise. While you are waiting for the spring, just shrug off the restlessness and invest in yourself. No, I am not talking about rushing to the gym to develop that chiseled body. I am talking about sharpening your negotiations skills. Do you know that the world’s greatest leaders […]

The Non-compromising battle between compromising Democrats and compromising Republicans

Americans love sports yet recognize the necessary flexibility in negotiating (trading) and therefore, are proficient compromisers. For instance, the Democratic Party is a fair compromise between Socialism and Practicality. The Republican Party is a reasonable compromise between Dictatorship and Neo-Liberalism. The Bernie Sanders Progressives are a decent compromise between radical liberalism and Reagan conservatism. The […]

Say “Not” In A Job Interview

This is a follow-on to my November 8 newsletter,  “Negotiating Salary? Interviewing for a new job? Ace it!” It is not necessarily a comprehensive list, just what not to say or do when in an interview. What is your current salary, and what is your salary expectation for this job? This or a variation of […]

Email, Phone, or In-Person

Several subscribers and clients have asked me if it is okay to negotiate by email. The answer is ‘Yes’ and ‘No.’ Let me explain. It is essential to recognize where you are in the negotiation process. During the preparation phase, the primary focus is on exchanging preliminary information, setting goals, prioritizing issues and the “Walkaways.” […]

Agree or Walk-Away?

In a negotiation, do not agree when it would not be wise to do so. However, also do not walk away from a mutually beneficial outcome. The “Agreement Trap” is the tendency to agree to a deal that is inferior to other available options.  We sometimes buy from a store even though a significantly better […]

Blow Your Horn, But No Yellow Teeth! Promote, Not Boast.

  Most of us do some self-promotion in our career, or even in social life. We try to help others see what we have accomplished, what more we can achieve, and what we can do for others. Often while we are self-promoting, we may also be turning other people off. One needs to be suave […]