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Formal versus Informal work negotiations

Formal negotiations follow a somewhat predictable path. They often occur at budget times, contract renewals, client complaints, or one party wanting a better deal. Sometimes, changed external factors or a party saying NO for unknown reasons cause conflict. Negotiations in these conflict situations have a consistent underlying structure. This structure is always present and requires skills […]

Five mistakes negotiators often make – mistake number 4 – Not Making a Proposal

Only proposals advance negotiations. If you have a complaint, propose. If you find yourself in a circular argument, propose to move forward. Make proposals—state remedies. Be specific and realistic. No need to keep the other side guessing. What is the probability of them guessing what you want accurately? Very little. To ensure that the other side […]

Five mistakes negotiators often make – Mistake 3

Most successful leaders have on trait in common. It is their ability to negotiate skillfully.

Five mistakes negotiators often make – Mistake 2

Most successful leaders have one trait in common. It is their ability to negotiate skillfully.

Five mistakes negotiators often make

The most common trait of the successful leaders.

Give your reason, and shut up!

There is usually an excellent reason for something: for doing it, for not doing it. Often we tell the other party this reason. We then think of another idea, and we give that as well. Then a third reason occurs to us, and we add that in for good measure. The problem is that each […]

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“Yes, and…” vs. “Yes, but…”

Most successful leaders have one trait in common. It is their ability to negotiate skillfully. Invest in yourself.