Tag Archive for: Relationships

Pretty Vs. Performance

Chic stores in an upscale mall attract a lot of visitors. People enjoy the razzle-dazzle of the displays and the activities. Rarely such lavish stores sell as well as “functional” outlets. Think Ikea, Costco, Sam’s Club, Dollar General, etc. Fancy websites rarely convert as quickly as straightforward, intuitive, functional websites. The simplicity of Google wiped […]

Getting out of Jam or Pickle

The predicament is that you see no outcome other than the one you fear or do not want. So, most of the time, when we think we are stuck, we fear the short-term outcome of making a decision. Make a choice, take the step, and own the consequences. You can then start fresh. Of course, […]

Simplicity

“Simplicity is the ideal virtue. Oh! how difficult it is to be Simple!” Google placed a simple rectangle for search. Write or ask anything, it will fetch the relevant information. Several other search engines had their websites crammed with everything except search box, placed conspicuously. Google won. Toyota began manufacturing Corolla in the U.S. in […]

Practice Kicks Fear

Anything you are afraid to do, practice doing it. Practice gets rid of fear. With practice, it becomes a habit. If you’re afraid to play the piano, play a little every day. Learn the notes. Begin with simple music. Play when you are alone. Record yourself. Play a bit more. Every day, tick-tock, tick-tock, a […]

“Critical Thinking, Intelligent Action,” In Negotiation

Let us face it. Life is a negotiation. You negotiate with your spouse, your children, your colleagues, even your commercial alliances and competitors… the list goes on. If you have read, “The World Is A BAZAAR – LIFE IS A NEGOTIATION – Skills to inject success, creativity, and fun in your life, relationships, and work,” […]

Managing Status in a Negotiation, Part III

When a reference benchmark is not determined and agreed upon in advance, there is a high probability of conflict and deadlock. Each side is tempted to compare itself to a standard that favors its position. Frequently, a clear criterion is not apparent. In such situations, it is even more critical to work with the other […]

In negotiations, are you freezing like a deer caught in the headlights?

  What do Tom Brady and Michael Phelps have in common? They know how to respond under pressure. Sports professionals frequently freeze under pressure. However, it is not limited to just sports. It happens in negotiations too. When asked an unwanted question, I have witnessed negotiators freeze like a deer caught in the headlights. This […]

The Non-compromising battle between compromising Democrats and compromising Republicans

Americans love sports yet recognize the necessary flexibility in negotiating (trading) and therefore, are proficient compromisers. For instance, the Democratic Party is a fair compromise between Socialism and Practicality. The Republican Party is a reasonable compromise between Dictatorship and Neo-Liberalism. The Bernie Sanders Progressives are a decent compromise between radical liberalism and Reagan conservatism. The […]